Dont let your mood go down if you dont get the respect you deserve.
Sometimes we meet a popular person who have been friends with us in the past time, and now we were far-away with them, no longer friends. When we got to ask them again about their day or just want to call them, they gave us "no-reply" for all what we did and asked, they didnt give us any feedback. Its so disrespect things theyve made to us. But, something that we must not forget, dont let ourselves down, just feel that nothing happen and encourage yourself to be positive thinking that "They also dont deserve your respect too", thats the point.
I explain here that the popularity of which our friend deserve is maybe the popularity around friends or the popularity around public. They may deserve that things all but they must not forget their communication around their longer/old friend too.
Sometimes popular person look an ordinary person as the loser who dont deserve any respect from them. Thats make bullying happened in school.
I have been a loser in my past time, being bullying by the "popular", being insulted, teased or anything, and got no respect. They treat me like a scum that must be eliminated around their territory. But i have my own faith, thats this is will not happened continuesly in your life, sometimes people who are down will go up, and the others who up will go down, every people have their era too to being popular.
Now, sometimes i still get some rejection from people who feel me as the person that didnt have to deserve anything. Well, i didnt feel dissapointed about them, i just feel pity for them. Sometimes they will be treaten like they treat me now.
Every people surely have their era to go up or down. For me now, i still stay on the middle (not go up or down), cause i feel i treat people well and deserve them my respect too. I dont too much hoping to be a popular, cause when it comes, it will be the happiest time for you in just a little time. I just want to become popular with my skills or my effort, so i can get the respect that i deserve, which is peoples recognition.
I dont need to be popular around friends, cause i will not get anything that i deserve in life. Being popular among friends for me, just wasting my time. Cause being popular around friends, the people around you just want to suck up to be your friend and become popular, later if you dont have anything that you deserve as a popular person, they will be leaving you alone.
So i just want to tell you that being a popular person is good, but you must not forget of anything that make you become a popular person. Being popular is to respect anyone who they are, who always support you with, not to leave them lost your respect.
Quote today : "Popularity is like a boomerang. It will fly you into the top, but smash you down if you do something wrong and dont stay to be who you are. And it wont last longer on the top."